Comfort Zone

Being in our comfort zone gives us the sense of security. This feeling is great for the moment but it will be our undoing. We get too comfortable to make changes that might or might not improve our lives.

Stay stagnant is bad because we are depriving ourselves the chance to do better, so stay away from your comfort zone and you will increase your own value.

I am always the odd one out, choosing things that are my weakness so that I will eventually learn to do better, thus improving myself. Bad at dealing with people, chose a management job after graduation to improve myself. Poor time management, end up managing the working schedule of a project. These are the little things I get to learn when I'm not at my comfort zone.

I never want to be average, I don't do average, I only do my fucking best and if I don't know how, I'll learn how to do it myself.

That's all for tonight.

Relationship

I do not know what vibe I emit but then I know what quality I want in my partner, but to be able to choose, I need to have things that I could offer and things that are valuable to my partner too.

My view of relationship is simple, a relationship is a bonus, it adds value to your life and gives you a glimpse of what your future might hold if you have such person in your life with you. If that is a burden, where you are constantly feeling the need to compromise every time and the need to sacrifice all the things that you are doing all these while, that is babysitting. A relationship is like a bonus to your life, you are good when you are alone but you will be better when you are with your partner.

I am no guru in relationship issues but I had my fair share of good and bad relationships. Every time I vow not to make the same mistakes that I did in my past relationships, every time I promise myself to do better in the coming ones and hoping that this would be my last and there will be a happy ending to it as I do my fucking best in every single one of my relationship.

I hope that I could get someone that shares my view in life and walk the never ending road together with me.

I am never mad at my exes for the bad endings, I sincerely hope and wish that they do well in life, I do hope that we learnt something from our journey of life together even if it was for a part of my life. 

to my future partner wherever or whoever you might be,here is a promise, I promise I will make you my priority and never an option. 

lkm: I don't know where I stand, but I hope one day our paths would be one.